When you think of a phone sex operator, you probably see them as one of two things: either you feel they are insecure people who have never experienced real love or you feel they are some type of sex god or goddess that is super secure with their sexuality. Whatever you may feel about them, they really are just doing their job and deserve respect just like any other human out there that appreciates sex.
What exactly is a phone sex operator anyways? And what makes people get into the field? We’ve spoken with a few phone operators and gathered up some really interesting information about these phone sex heroes, read on to find out more about them and how to become one (if that’s something you’re interested in, of course!) There’s a lot more to it than you think!
What is a Phone Sex Operator?
In short, a phone sex operator is basically an actress or actor over the phone, partaking in sexual fantasies with someone who calls in to speak with them. These operators have to learn about every fantasy in the book, and then become that for the caller on the other end. There are even times that operators report being on the phone for up to 3 hours, either helping them feel good or giving dating advice.
Yes, dating advice. Some say they’ve been a dating counselor more times than they can count. So it isn’t always about sex but then again, none of them could remember a time their conversation didn’t have a happy ending. So, I guess in a way it is always about sex…eventually.
How to Get Started as a Phone Sex Operator
Now that you’ve found out what exactly a phone sex operator is and what they do, it’s time to find out how to get started as one. Of course, you have to be at least 18 years old to even apply, other than being of age there are no physical requirements to act over the phone. So, how exactly do you get started as a sex operator?
Requirements of a PSO
- As stated already, you must be 18 years old. There might even be some sex lines and sex chats that will only hire 21 and up, it just depends on the company.
- Must have a landline or cell phone line with great connection – However, it is important to remember that every company is different in the requirements needed to be able to talk with callers. Some may require only a landline, while there are others that might ask you to have internet connection as well
- Great speaking voice
- Quiet area so callers can hear you
- You must be able to talk and possibly tell a story – it’s not so much about having that sexy voice as it is being able to talk to someone, being able to sell an Eskimo an iced cold drink, if you can tell a story to anyone about anything, you can be a phone sex operator
Tips to start as a PSO
# 1 Always do your research on the company you’re applying to
As with anything else online, you must do your research on the company you might be working for. Read the reviews of other employees, and not disgruntled employees that were fired because they did something wrong, but actual employees who are still working for them or those who left on their own accord. Only take into consideration those who have gotten fired, if they got fired for illegitimate reasons or false accusations.
# 2 Find out if you’re comfortable with their clientele
Certain websites and chat lines have only a certain ‘type’ of persons that visit and chat on the site daily, so make sure that you are going to be comfortable with the callers you’ll be speaking with. You don’t want to get yourself into an awkward situation where you feel absolutely disgusted to even act out a fantasy. If you know they have those types of calls, move on to the next.
# 3 Make sure you’re comfortable with the companies rules too
Working as a phone sex operator is a tad bit different than working out in the public eye. At a restaurant, hotel, or bar, you’re going to run into people that you bump heads with and don’t agree with but that’s how jobs are. However, when it comes to working in the sex industry, you have room to be a little more choosy.
A company could have a rule where you must take every single call, no matter if it goes against your morals or not. So a man could call in wanting you to pretend you’re his daughter and you have to do that. It is best to find a company that has such a rule that if it makes you feel disgusted, you don’t do it.
# 4 Get familiar with sexual fetishes, sexual turn-ons in general, and everything in between
Obviously you are going to be doing a lot of talking and with that talking, you’re going to have to know (or at least sound like you know) what you’re talking about. If you don’t, you could ruin the call altogether and when your call is ruined, so is your paycheck. It’s best to swallow your pride in situations where you may think it is gross but oh well, it’s some people’s fantasy.
Take sucking toes, for example, you may think it’s gross but not something you can’t pretend, right?
# 5 Apply, apply, apply
Just like with any other job, you’re going to have to get your name and application out there. Searching online is the best way to go, especially in this genre. Make sure you’re putting your best foot forward, just as you would with any other job and fill out your application as professionally and thoroughly as you can.
You can even follow up with companies after you have filled out the app and have waited for some time.
# 6 Open up your mind and learn to become any character
If you go into this phone sex operator job search with an open mind, you’ll come out on top and probably working with one of the finest companies online there is. When we say keep an open mind, we mean that it is ok to venture out into areas that might not be your forte, but as long as you can portray that character they need you to be, that’s all that matters.
For example, you might a heterosexual male but find yourself applying to a gay chat line as a gay phone sex operator, and there is nothing wrong with that – as long as you are willing to play that part for that caller on the other end.
# 7 Respect as you wish to be respected
No phone call, no chat line, no dating app out there can help you will ever give you the respect you would like if you don’t give it. According to phonesexnumbers.com, one of the largest online sex and dating chatlines, you must have respect for one another to have a truly invigorating sexual phone experience. Even if you must portray a character that is the total opposite of your own sexual preference, if you have mutual respect for one another you’ll be able to give them an amazing phone experience and they’d never know you weren’t who you claimed to be!
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